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Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Monday, May 27, 2013
Best Summer Ever
There’s a phrase we girls coined last year. “Best
Summer Ever”. Yep.. I think I threw that out there on the first day at the
pool. I was confident that I had reached a point with my children that we would
be having little to no meltdowns and I was even more sure that I would be
pleasantly surprised by their cooperation skills.
Fast forward a few weeks into the summer grind and you could
hear momma after momma snicker as we would throw out the “Best Summer Ever”
phrase while one after the other would tote theirs to the bathroom for an
attitude adjustment. A string of summer fails could be met with “BSE” text from
all of us.
By the end of the summer we wished we had penned a “Best
Summer Ever Memoir”. Guaranteed a best seller.
So here we go again.... “Best Summer Ever part 2”. That’s
right. I declare a do over. My hopes are set high for Summer 2013. I’m going to
stare it in the eye and conquer it with mad ninja skills. Here’s how……
1. The ol’ Chore Chart. I’m fairly certain this
will be met with gnashing of teeth but I will prevail in my efforts. Three easy
peasy chores are all I will require of my children each day. Maybe I will look
up at the end of the week to a clean home.
2. Activity sheets. Oh to be a teachers child. My
mother was convinced that if we didn’t use it we would lose it. “It” being our
mad math and reading comprehension skills of course. I assured her that we were
the only lame kids on the block that ever had to do worksheets during their
summer break. Well…now my kids can be lame to. Welcome to the club kiddos.
3. Outdoor/Indoor planned activities. If its not
planned then it will not happen around my house. The intention may be there but if it’s not
prepared for then we all end up watching too much television all summer long.
That ain’t happening.
4. A little more lingering. I attend an amazing
bible class on Sundays. This past Sunday our teacher challenged us to take time
and linger. Linger in our relationships, conversations and God’s Word.
Essentially the word “Linger” means to be slow in parting or in quitting
something. To be reluctant to leave. I feel freakishly fast paced in my day to
day. Very little time to sit and converse with friends. Even more so in my
reading of Gods Word. Just to linger.
So I’m curious how you handle your summers? Do you have an survivor kit action
plan? I’m more than anxious to hear your
ideas.
Peace Y’all
Monday, May 20, 2013
Why we should all be running
I remember when I hated running. It was always for
conditioning purposes back in high school. Five down and back, 21 across, line
drills, blah.. blah.. blah.. yuck! It was hot and always very hard and I
complained the whole time. I remember telling my dad I wanted to quit basketball because I simply dreaded the first few weeks of straight up hard
work.
A few years ago I had a close friend that tried to talk me into
running. I kept telling her “I’m just not a runner”. My mind would take me
back to those hot August days in the gym where I wanted to puke my lunch up on
the gym floor. I was perfectly happy as a “speed” walker as my choice of
cardio. (My high school friends are puzzled that I even used the word speed.)
But then I gave it a shot. A few laps around the track one
cold December morning paired with girl time had me hooked. And now I have a few
pretty medals from a few races to show off. I’m pretty darn slow but that’s not
the point okay. I enjoy running when its
60 degrees on a flat road with no wind preferably no heat and no humidity.
That’s all.
This got me thinking
about my salvation and how long I spent my life perfectly content as a walker.
I grew up in church my whole life but I can safely say that
it wasn’t until high school that I fell in love with Christ and his word. I was
smitten with Him and his grace that he extended to a pathetic loser like me.
So
I began walking.
Walking is great isn’t it?
One foot in front of the other gets us right where we want to go. There
isn’t much labor in walking. It’s easy on the body and good for the soul.
That’s exactly how my faith looked for most of my adult
life. Attend a bible study, worship on Sundays, and read my Bible when I needed
to check that off of my list too. Walking is comfortable.
But then I started reading His word. I don’t mean reading it
just to check it off my list but taking small bites and REALLY chewing on them.
Talking to the Lord about the things in my life that didn’t match up to what
His word says. Asking Him to grant me wisdom and knowledge to understand it.
And most importantly praying His word back to Him.
I’m convinced that when we continually dig into Gods word
that it activates the Holy Spirit within us to move. He places passions and
affections within us that at one time had no place in our lives. He gives us a righteous
anger towards the things that make Him angry. And He gives us eyes to see the
grace he covers us with so we too can show grace to others.
Then we lace up our
running shoes and start running.
I realize now that I was so content walking because I never
truly understood the gospel. I’m not quite sure that if we understand the
gospel that we are able to walk.
How can we NOT
run? RUN to the needy, RUN to the
oppressed, RUN to the hungry, RUN to the lost. When we understand the gospel
there is no time to walk.
Jesus’s words about this hits me hard every. single. time.
“Then the King will say to those on
his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take you inheritance, the
kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and
you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink,
I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I
was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
“Then the righteous will answer
him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you
something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or
needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick in prison and go to
visit you?’
“The King will reply, “Truly I tell
you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sister of mine,
you did for me.” Matthew 25:34-40 (NIV)
I’ve seen some pretty cool runners lately. Families who are
going on mission trips, people opening their homes to foster care, adoption, women
determined to bring awareness to a community about sex trafficking, ladies who
serve at the pregnancy resource center. I cannot leave out those that serve in
the church week after week. I could go
on and on and on.
Sister, are you a
walker or runner?
If you are content with walking this thing out until the end
you are missing out. Running a race is
hard. There are hills, wind, heat and blisters. But crossing the finish line
and throwing that medal around your neck is a feeling like non other.
Start
grabbing the walkers along the course and show them how much more rewarding it
is to run the race!
Get out there and RUN!
Would you share the areas that stir your affections for Christ that cause you to run?
Peace Y’all
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Blind Spots: Calling a Sister Out
Relax! I’m not calling anyone out. Chill.
Remember when I wrote about encouragement. If not then you
can take a look at that here. We are so
willing to put ourselves out there to be lifted up by others aren’t we? Not
sure I’ve ever run across someone who doesn’t like a pat on the back or a kind
word every now and then. But there is
another side to that encouragement coin and it’s rebuking. The word rebuke just
sounds harsh and unkind. But Gods word says differently.
If we use Gods word to direct us to what rebuking looks like
then it would be something like what we find in 2 Timothy 3:16
All scripture is God-breathed and
is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training, so that the servant
of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. (NIV)
This gives a perfect picture why we are called to rebuke fellow Christians. So we can be
equipped for His good works.
My guess is that we all have blind spots. Not driving blind
spot where you change lanes too soon and drivers pass by with evil glares.
Those folks need to just chill..it’s never on purpose.
I’m referring to the blind spots that encompass the dark
places where we are unable to see the sin in our own lives.
What if we ALLOW a close sister to shine some light into
those dark spots?
Psalms 141:5 says:
Let a righteous man strike
me—that is a kindness; let him rebuke me—that is oil on my head.
Proverbs 12:21 also:
Whoever rebukes a person will in
the end gain favor rather than one who has a flattering tongue.
This is a tough issue to tackle because I know if this is
not handled in a loving manner (Galatians 6:1) I will be the first to get defensive
and throw out every justification for my “blind spot”. For the sake of
transparency let’s just go ahead and throw in pride, arrogance and hurt
feelings.
We should be careful not to become stumbling blocks in the
way of our own correction.
That word rebuke also means reproof- which means convincing
a man of his sin.
To correct by restoration and to set right again.
It doesn’t look so bad now does it?
Now that is some straight up good girlfriend love right there.
Thoughts?..
Monday, May 13, 2013
Get to Reading!
Can you feel it coming? Ready or not its quickly approaching and if your anything like me..You must be prepared. I have to have a game plan.
I'm stuck in this middle spot where I have no concrete feelings about summer yet.
On one side I see fun days spent at the pool, little or no schedule, vacations, grilling out with friends, bumming boat rides to the lake with friends, tan legs, pool days that count as baths most nights and big tomatoes slathered with mayo.
Then on the other side I see little or no schedule, scorching hot days that force you inside, snakes, my attempt to keep those tomatoes alive and my lead role as referee.
Here's one thing I know. I must limit my screen time during all of this free time. So here's some books I'm reading and I would love for you to join me! A book club of sorts...
Cleaning House: A Mom’s Twelve-Month Experiment to Rid Her
Home of Youth Entitlement
by Kay Wills Wyma
A Disruptive Faith: Expect God to Disrupt Your Life
by A.W. Tozer
Orphan Justice: How to Care for Orphans Beyond
Adoption
by Johnny Carr
Subversive Kingdom: Living as Agents of GospelTransformation
by Ed Stetzer
Freefall to Fly: A Breathtaking Journey Toward a Life of Meaning
by Rebekah Lyons
Unconditional Love: Radical Love, Real
People
by Ben Stroup
Compelled: Living the Mission of God
by Ed Stetzer &
Phillip Nation
Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
by Eric Metaxas
I've realized in my old age of 30 that when you stop reading you stop learning. Let's keep our minds sharp and our hearts open. I hope you will join me and hopefully we can do a bit of discussion about the books listed above.
Peace Ya'll
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